You’re in pain, you’re frustrated, and all you can think about is: “I miss my ex”. Coping after a break up is tough, especially if you still love your ex. No matter what happens don’t give up! Pretty much every body gets a second chance and you’re no different!

What can you do? How can you save a broken relationship? Breaking up is a terrible, painful experience, no doubt, especially if you feel like you lost the love of your life. However, there’s more than a good chance that he or she wants to get back together. So, here are some shocking tips on how to get your ex back:

The most important thing to start with is to make sure that, deep down, you really want your ex back. Make sure that your real motives and intentions for getting back together are the right ones. Remember, there are no impossible situations, you just need to know what to do.

Next, ask yourself: Did your ex fell in love with an obsessive, desperate person? Of course not! You need to start by regaining control of your emotions and show them that you can be the attractive and emotionally stable person you were months ago.

Also remember nobody likes a spammer, on the internet or in real life. Don’t terrorize your ex with tons of calls, text messages or any other sort of communication. Just play it cool and give them time to miss you.

Look, you must focus on living your own life again, it will help you fix your broken heart. Keep up with your old daily routines such as exercising, reading, or hanging out with friends. I know “I miss my ex so much” is all you can think about, but that will not help you in getting him or her back.

Now, this is important: you have to give your ex some space and not contact them for a while. If you give them space and not chase them, they just may pick up the phone and contact you to see how you’ve been.

When you talk, keep the conversation brief. Don’t be the one who talks about emotions or feelings. In fact, you should even act a bit indifferent to them, it’s a good way to tell if your ex wants you back. If you end up meeting in person, make sure to look your best. Before you leave, if you want, give them a hug but that’s it. This will drive them crazy…

From this point forward, you should be able to get your ex back quite easily. Just take it slow. Back off and give them space. They will probably contact you and want to see you again. When they do, be a little bit of a tease. Make them work for your love and affection!

Imagine for a minute having your partner back in your arms, where they belong. You should know that couples reunite every day regardless of the situation, but – You must take action before it’s too late and they will fall in love with someone else… sooner than you think!!

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If the breakup was recent, the best thing to do is to take a step back and not communicate with your ex for a while. In this time, think about the reasons you want to get them back. Is it because you were really good together or is it because you feel lonely? You can even make a list of good things and bad things about your ex, or a list of pros and cons about getting back together.

If you come up to the conclusion that you really want a second chance, keep the non-communication routine. If you find new hobbies, start going to the gym or take a course in Spanish, your ex will surely hear about it from a mutual friend. He or she will get curious about you and wonder why you are not contacting them. Expect a call after a few days, they most likely will not be able to resist the urge to call you and see how you are doing.

If the breakup was weeks or months ago, there is still a chance. Start with a text massage or a short phone call. Tell your ex that you heard a song that reminded you of them, and just ask how they are doing. Don’t make it a long call, just a few minutes of chatting. Do not ask to meet just yet, let them stew for a little while. Wait at least a week before the next call (unless they will call first). Then you can offer to meet for coffee (no drinks!), and keep it short, for an hour or so. Say you need to be someplace else, even if it’s not true.

This will make your ex crazy, as they will think about what you are doing, or whom you are meeting with… From this stage, the ball is in their court, and they will probably call you to ask to meet again. On the second time you meet, try to be friendly and communicative, but don’t encourage a lot of physical contact. Finish the meeting with a small kiss on the cheek, it will make them want more.

All of this will surely make your ex to realize that they want you back. If not, then at least you will know that you tried your best. You can read more tips here: Winning your ex girlfriend back and getting married.

If you went through a recent breakup you probably know the feeling – you don’t want to see anyone, go out or do anything other than sobbing all day. You are not the first and certainly not the last, but this isn’t any comfort to you right now. If all you can think of is how do I get my ex boyfriend back, know that there are a few things you can do.

First of all, stop doing whatever you were doing so far. It is only human to try to do whatever you can, so you are probably texting him and calling him 5 times a day (not to mention emails or IM’s…). You must stop all communication at once, since it is only pushing him further away. It must sound crazy, but this is the best advice. Once you stop communication, you’ll see that after a while he will contact you, asking how you are doing.

During this time when you are not communicating with your ex, focus on improving your personal life. This is going to be a tough time, but if you find new hobbies and interests, your life will be more interesting.

Once your ex sees you are focusing on yourself and not interested in his actions anymore, he will start to be curious about you. You will become mysterious to your ex, since he will start to wonder what you are doing or feeling. Now the tables will turn, as your ex will be the one missing you, wanting to get back together.

You should know that there is a way to get your ex back, you just need to know what to do, and also what not to do. Here are a few do’s and don’ts that would help you on your mission.

Don’ts

It is very important to not try to get revenge with your ex or make them jealous. Many people think that if they would start dating others, it would make the ex jealous. You might get that purpose, but on the way you’ll hurt the feelings of the person you started dating with. Besides, there’s no guarantee that this will work. Your ex might be jealous, but they might also think that you have moved on, and that they should do the same.

Do not smother your ex. It’s a well-known human reaction trap. You miss your ex and you are afraid you’ll never get them back, so you start to call them, email them or text them constantly. According to – back-get-ex.com, you must stop doing it. You’ll only annoy and push them further away.

Do’s

Make sure you give your ex a lot of space. Just leave them alone for a while. It might be the hardest thing you’ll do, but it almost always work. Your ex will start wondering how you are doing, and if you moved on with your life. In most cases, they won’t be able to resist the temptation of calling you and check up on you.

Invest in yourself. It’s a tough time, getting over a break-up, but you must stop mourning and start taking care of yourself. Get a new hobby, start exercising and go out with your friends. It’s bound to happen that at some point your ex will see or hear about it, and will reconnect with you.

I’m against going back to an ex. I don’t see the appeal of going back to the ex or making him want me back. Like there are many reasons to why some people want their ex lovers back, there are also tons of reasons why other people do not.

If after the break up, my ex feels that he made a huge mistake, then it’s his loss. I’m not going to get back together with him, if he asked. Why should I? He dumped me in the first place. I’m sure he gave the break up a good thought before acting on it.

I’m not a cold-hearted person. I just feel that it’s not the end of the world if a relationship ends. There’ll be someone else out there for me. After a break up, a lot of people think their lives are over. Please, don’t be so over-dramatic. There’ll be someone else, even better!

First plan is to act as if you’re doing great. Keep telling yourself that you’re awesome and that you don’t need someone else to make you happy. After all, you must love yourself first before you can love anyone else.

Don’t call the ex, especially if the break up was just last night. This is when you should make the ex miss you and wonder why you’re not calling.

Go for a makeover or pamper yourself with a good massage. When you feel good inside, you will look good on the outside. At the same time, when they see how great you look, they’d be wondering if you are seeing someone else.

You have to use mind tricks to get your ex to want you back together. Take the time out to catch up with friends. Suit up, go out and be awesome!

Also, find out if he is still interested in you. This is not hard to do. If he is still interested, you would be receiving calls, text messages, emails etc from him. It may not be as constant as it used to be when you guys were together but once or twice in a week is definitely something.

However, do not brush him off if he calls – ask him how his day was and what he has been up to. Act interested as this will tell him that you are still interested (he is probably fishing for some positive feedback).

If he does not call or form any sort of communication, it only means he has no interest to continue the relationship. So it’s best that you move on. Who knows, the love of your life is still out there.

A couple of weeks after our relationship ended, I decided I want my ex back. I called him one day to check if he was at home and after that, I cooked his favorite meal and dropped the meal outside his door.

Few meters away from his house, I called to tell him to look outside his door. He called back an hour later telling me how delicious the meal was. Scored! That was just the beginning.

After that, I called and sent him text messages telling him how much I missed him and what a jerk I was. Then, I stalked him on Facebook and told all the new girls on his account how happy he is being with me. That’s right! I told them a white lie.

Next, I begged and pleaded him to get back together. I bawled and rolled like a baby until he said yes. Ashamed? Not really. I got him back and wrapped him around my finger…

Do not smother your ex with phone calls, text messages, e-mails etc. Please refrain from leaving 30 odd voice-mails. By doing this, you will drive your ex crazy (and not in a good way…) and they might just block you from all the communication platforms available.

Do not drive by their house every one hour. Better yet, do not camp out on their lawn, singing your lungs out about how much you miss and love him or her. If they won’t do it, the neighbors might call the police and get you arrested. The idea is to entice them and let them know you’re still desirable. NOT the opposite!

Take a notepad and write down all the things you did wrong during the relationship. Those things could have been the reasons why your ex is no longer with you. By writing down the wrong things you did, you will be able to go through them and correct those mistakes.

Plan a system to get your ex back. This means you must know when the right time is to give her a call, what to say to her and when you can take her out for coffee or ice cream. Strategise and ask if you could have her back when you see an opportunity.