I Miss My Ex

If you want to make your ex want you back, you have to make some plans. These plans are important and they will pretty much break or make it.

First plan is to act as if you’re doing great. Keep telling yourself that you’re awesome and that you don’t need someone else to make you happy. After all, you must love yourself first before you can love anyone else.

Don’t call the ex, especially if the break up was just last night. This is when you should make the ex miss you and wonder why you’re not calling.

Go for a makeover or pamper yourself with a good massage. When you feel good inside, you will look good on the outside. At the same time, when they see how great you look, they’d be wondering if you are seeing someone else.

You have to use mind tricks to get your ex to want you back together. Take the time out to catch up with friends. Suit up, go out and be awesome!

It is not that difficult to make your ex want you back. One of the things that you can do to make him want you back is to act as if you have moved on. Do not call him often, in fact, do not call him at all. This will make him wonder – “could she be out with someone else?”, “has she moved on?”

Also, find out if he is still interested in you. This is not hard to do. If he is still interested, you would be receiving calls, text messages, emails etc from him. It may not be as constant as it used to be when you guys were together but once or twice in a week is definitely something.

However, do not brush him off if he calls – ask him how his day was and what he has been up to. Act interested as this will tell him that you are still interested (he is probably fishing for some positive feedback).

If he does not call or form any sort of communication, it only means he has no interest to continue the relationship. So it’s best that you move on. Who knows, the love of your life is still out there.

Let me share with you how I got my ex back. Word of caution: this may not work for everybody.

A couple of weeks after our relationship ended, I decided I want my ex back. I called him one day to check if he was at home and after that, I cooked his favorite meal and dropped the meal outside his door.

Few meters away from his house, I called to tell him to look outside his door. He called back an hour later telling me how delicious the meal was. Scored! That was just the beginning.

After that, I called and sent him text messages telling him how much I missed him and what a jerk I was. Then, I stalked him on Facebook and told all the new girls on his account how happy he is being with me. That’s right! I told them a white lie.

Next, I begged and pleaded him to get back together. I bawled and rolled like a baby until he said yes. Ashamed? Not really. I got him back and wrapped him around my finger…

Let’s face it, some people are clueless when it comes to what not to do to get their exes back. Instead of getting them back, some people drive the exes further away from them. The last thing you want is a restraining order from someone that you love and care for. Therefore, it is imperative that you know what not to do in order to get your ex back.

Do not smother your ex with phone calls, text messages, e-mails etc. Please refrain from leaving 30 odd voice-mails. By doing this, you will drive your ex crazy (and not in a good way…) and they might just block you from all the communication platforms available.

Do not drive by their house every one hour. Better yet, do not camp out on their lawn, singing your lungs out about how much you miss and love him or her. If they won’t do it, the neighbors might call the police and get you arrested. The idea is to entice them and let them know you’re still desirable. NOT the opposite!

Trying to get your ex back seems like a difficult thing to execute. That would be the case if you don’t know what to do to get her back. The same question would be ringing in your head “how do I get back with my ex” and now, you do not need to ask that question anymore. Here is a good advice on how you can get your ex back!

Take a notepad and write down all the things you did wrong during the relationship. Those things could have been the reasons why your ex is no longer with you. By writing down the wrong things you did, you will be able to go through them and correct those mistakes.

Plan a system to get your ex back. This means you must know when the right time is to give her a call, what to say to her and when you can take her out for coffee or ice cream. Strategise and ask if you could have her back when you see an opportunity.